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First impressions count and once made they are hard to change How do you make a good first impression
on someone you meet for the first time Here are three tips for making a positive first impression
First to impress people and help make them feel close to you try to remember their names and repeatedly mention their names throughout the conversations Second remember that when responding to any question
do not just answer Yes or No try to elaborate as much as you can Also, try to find some common ground
or common topics There may be a common hobby a similar academic background some family activities
or related working experiences that you can share and discuss All these suggestions
may help you to enrich your conversation So you're new here are you Yes I just came here this week
I'm Fabian Beltran I'm from Colombia I'm Yunling from China
Nice to meet you
Nice to meet you too
Great music
Yes I really like pop music
So do I
Lately I've been listening to Taylor Swift
Wow she is also my favorite
Have you ever taken a class with Mr Li before
No I haven't but I heard he is a good teacher
I had him for math last year
He is very strict but he is very friendly
Really I'm going to take his class next year
In all cultures
it is important to make a good first impression
A person's attitude
and actions
will determine
how you feel about that person and whether or not you wish to talk with them again
If a person makes a bad first impression by being rude
then you would probably want to avoid talking with them in the future A good first impression however
will make you want to talk to them more The introduction to this section
mentions several pieces of advice that are helpful in making a good first impression
in a conversation Remembering someone's name is very important and using their names in the first conversation helps you to remember their names later on Another good piece of advice
is to find common ground That is to say find a topic you both are familiar with
or you can relate to This helps connect you to the other person and makes conversation easier
In the conversations with Fabian and Zhang Yunling
they discuss things like where they are from
what kind of music they like and a teacher they both know of
Other topics that are good for opening conversations are movies weather travel work school and hobbies
Topics that are not good for first conversations are politics
religion controversial topics or information that is too personal
like age salary and marital status